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Chuppah: a wedding guide

The chuppah is the cloth a Jewish couple stand under to wed. Four poles hold it up.

When couples book this

About 4 months before your wedding.

Still deciding the wedding

Your wishlist

Answer these before you meet anyone.

  • How are you hoping to get the chuppah?

    A family frame or a borrowed community chuppah is as common as a rental or florist build.

  • What look are you picturing?

    The traditional form is a cloth spread over four poles; a florist's frame or a draped arch stands in for it just as often.

  • Freestanding, or held by hand?

    A hand-held chuppah is carried on four poles by honored people.

Comparing your options

How it’s usually priced

Usually priced as one flat amount.

Possible extras: Structure rental / build, Delivery, setup & strike.

Booked and settling details

What you settle once booked

  • Where is the chuppah coming from?

    A chuppah doesn't have to be hired — a frame a family member builds, a borrowed community chuppah, or the one your synagogue keeps on hand are all common paths, alongside a florist build or a rental.

  • What covers the top?

    A parent's or grandparent's tallit as the canopy is a common choice; customs vary by family and community. In Sephardi practice a tallit is also spread over the couple's heads under the chuppah while the ketubah is read and the blessings are said — that one comes with the couple, not with the structure.

  • Freestanding or hand-held?

    A hand-held chuppah is carried on four poles by honored people — often close friends or family. A freestanding chuppah is built and struck like a structure.

  • Who decorates the chuppah?

  • Where does the chuppah stand?

    Many families set the chuppah under the open sky, as a good sign; indoors, the ceiling height decides the pole length.

  • How does it come down?

What to look over

Correct these details as needed.

  • When does the chuppah go up?

The week of the wedding

The day-of sheet

Confirm arrival, finish, who to call, access, a meal, and what is due.

Across the whole day

Choose which moments to include.

  • Chuppah build & setup
  • Chuppah strike

For businesses

The brief a couple sends you has these sections:

See a sample brief