Chuppah: a wedding guide
The chuppah is the cloth a Jewish couple stand under to wed. Four poles hold it up.
When couples book this
About 4 months before your wedding.
Still deciding the wedding
Your wishlist
Answer these before you meet anyone.
How are you hoping to get the chuppah?
A family frame or a borrowed community chuppah is as common as a rental or florist build.
What look are you picturing?
The traditional form is a cloth spread over four poles; a florist's frame or a draped arch stands in for it just as often.
Freestanding, or held by hand?
A hand-held chuppah is carried on four poles by honored people.
Comparing your options
How it’s usually priced
Usually priced as one flat amount.
Possible extras: Structure rental / build, Delivery, setup & strike.
Booked and settling details
What you settle once booked
Where is the chuppah coming from?
A chuppah doesn't have to be hired — a frame a family member builds, a borrowed community chuppah, or the one your synagogue keeps on hand are all common paths, alongside a florist build or a rental.
What covers the top?
A parent's or grandparent's tallit as the canopy is a common choice; customs vary by family and community. In Sephardi practice a tallit is also spread over the couple's heads under the chuppah while the ketubah is read and the blessings are said — that one comes with the couple, not with the structure.
Freestanding or hand-held?
A hand-held chuppah is carried on four poles by honored people — often close friends or family. A freestanding chuppah is built and struck like a structure.
Who decorates the chuppah?
Where does the chuppah stand?
Many families set the chuppah under the open sky, as a good sign; indoors, the ceiling height decides the pole length.
How does it come down?
What to look over
Correct these details as needed.
When does the chuppah go up?
The week of the wedding
The day-of sheet
Confirm arrival, finish, who to call, access, a meal, and what is due.
Across the whole day
Choose which moments to include.
- Chuppah build & setup
- Chuppah strike
For businesses
The brief a couple sends you has these sections:
- The ceremony
- The chuppah
- Schedule
- Contacts