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Vow & toast coaching: a wedding guide

A vow coach helps you write your vows. They help with toasts and speeches too.

When couples book this

About 9 months before your wedding.

Still deciding the wedding

Your wishlist

Answer these before you meet anyone.

  • Who are you hoping to get coaching for?

  • How would you like to work with a coach?

  • What would you love the vows to sound like?

Comparing your options

How it’s usually priced

Usually priced as one flat amount.

Possible extras: Additional sessions, Wedding-party coaching.

Booked and settling details

What you settle once booked

  • Who's getting coaching?

  • How do you want to work?

  • What should the vows sound like?

  • Are the vows a surprise?

    A coach who reads both sets can match length and tone without either partner seeing the other's words.

  • Delivery practice session

    Reading aloud is where length and tone problems surface — a five-minute toast on paper is eight at the mic.

  • What do you read from on the day?

What to look over

Correct these details as needed.

  • Who's speaking at the reception?

For businesses

The brief a couple sends you has these sections:

See a sample brief