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Save-the-dates: a wedding guide

Save-the-dates are the first thing guests get. They share your date and your city.

When couples book this

About 7 months before your wedding.

Still deciding the wedding

Your wishlist

Answer these before you meet anyone.

  • Printed, magnet, or digital — what are you leaning toward?

  • What look are you picturing?

  • Do you want the design to carry into your invitation suite?

Comparing your options

What to ask each one

  • This shop's production turnaround

    Proof rounds, print run, and shipping time.

  • Can this shop carry the design into the invitation suite?

How it’s usually priced

Usually priced per household.

Possible extras: Postage, Envelope addressing, Design / photo customization fee.

Booked and settling details

What you settle once booked

  • Printed, magnet, or digital?

  • What the card says

    Names, date, city or venue, website — and 'invitation to follow'. Details stay light; the invitation carries the rest.

  • How are you collecting mailing addresses?

    The quiet long pole — collecting addresses routinely takes longer than printing. Digital sends still want addresses eventually; the invitations will need them.

  • How are envelopes addressed?

What to look over

Correct these details as needed.

  • How many to send?

    The save-the-date freezes the guest list's outer edge earlier than most couples expect.

For businesses

The brief a couple sends you has these sections:

See a sample brief