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Live band: a wedding guide

A live band plays your reception in sets. A singer often leads the dance floor.

When couples book this

About 9 months before your wedding.

Still deciding the wedding

Your wishlist

Answer these before you meet anyone.

  • Where do you want the band to play?

  • What should the band sound like?

  • How big a band are you picturing?

Comparing your options

What to ask each one

  • Where do you need the band?

  • Music during band breaks

    Live sets have breaks — a common gap couples forget to fill.

How it’s usually priced

Usually priced as one flat amount.

Possible extras: Ceremony musicians, Cocktail-hour set, Overtime (per hour), Band meals.

Booked and settling details

What you settle once booked

  • Power & stage space

  • Key reception moments

  • Songs you want played

    Title and artist for each. Say which recording if a particular one matters.

  • Songs to keep off the list

  • The song for each moment

    One line per moment: the moment, the song and artist, which recording or version, and what cues it to start. The version is the detail that most often goes missing between the plan and the day.

  • Names to announce, and how to say them

    Write each name the way it should sound, in the order they come in.

What to look over

Correct these details as needed.

  • Music end time

  • Band size / meals

The week of the wedding

The day-of sheet

Confirm arrival, finish, who to call, access, a meal, and what is due.

Across the whole day

Choose which moments to include.

  • Band load-in & sound check
  • Live sets
  • Band load-out

For businesses

The brief a couple sends you has these sections:

See a sample brief