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Cocktail-hour music: a wedding guide

Musicians play soft music while guests mingle. A jazz trio is a common choice.

When couples book this

About 9 months before your wedding.

Still deciding the wedding

Your wishlist

Answer these before you meet anyone.

  • What kind of act are you dreaming of?

  • What mood do you want during cocktails?

  • Acoustic, or do you want it amplified?

Comparing your options

What to ask each one

  • What kind of act?

  • Acoustic or amplified?

How it’s usually priced

Usually priced as one flat amount.

Possible extras: Extended set, Overtime (per hour).

Booked and settling details

What you settle once booked

  • Where does the act set up?

    Roaming acts (a mariachi band working the crowd) need no stage — placement is still worth settling with the venue.

  • Who takes over when cocktails end?

  • Songs you want played

    Title and artist for each. Say which recording if a particular one matters.

  • Songs to keep off the list

  • The song for each moment

    One line per moment: the moment, the song and artist, which recording or version, and what cues it to start. The version is the detail that most often goes missing between the plan and the day.

What to look over

Correct these details as needed.

  • When does the set start?

The week of the wedding

The day-of sheet

Confirm arrival, finish, who to call, access, a meal, and what is due.

Across the whole day

Choose which moments to include.

  • Cocktail musicians setup
  • Cocktail-hour set
  • Cocktail musicians pack-out

For businesses

The brief a couple sends you has these sections:

See a sample brief