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Ceremony musicians: a wedding guide

Live music plays as guests take their seats. A string quartet or a harp is a common pick.

When couples book this

About 9 months before your wedding.

Still deciding the wedding

Your wishlist

Answer these before you meet anyone.

  • What kind of ensemble are you picturing?

  • What should the ceremony music feel like?

  • How much do you want them to cover?

  • Do you need them to bring amplification?

Comparing your options

What to ask each one

  • What kind of ensemble?

    Larger ensembles need more floor space and longer setup.

  • Amplification

  • Keep the musicians through cocktail hour?

How it’s usually priced

Usually priced as one flat amount.

Possible extras: Cocktail-hour extension, Amplification / PA add-on, Custom song arrangement, Overtime (per hour).

Booked and settling details

What you settle once booked

  • Which moments get music?

  • Who cues the processional?

  • Musicians at the rehearsal?

  • Songs you want played

    Title and artist for each. Say which recording if a particular one matters.

  • Songs to keep off the list

  • The song for each moment

    One line per moment: the moment, the song and artist, which recording or version, and what cues it to start. The version is the detail that most often goes missing between the plan and the day.

What to look over

Correct these details as needed.

  • When does the music start?

The week of the wedding

The day-of sheet

Confirm arrival, finish, who to call, access, a meal, and what is due.

Across the whole day

Choose which moments to include.

  • Musicians arrive, set up & tune
  • Prelude (guests seated)
  • Ceremony music
  • Musicians pack & depart

For businesses

The brief a couple sends you has these sections:

See a sample brief